Till now, most of what I’ve shared about Levi has been our wrestle with colic. And sure, these have been a few of the hardest months of my life, but it surely doesn’t inform the entire story in regards to the previous 10 months with Levi.
For the reason that four-month mark, I can’t consider how a lot he has modified. Nobody can. He was all the time great; he simply had a tough time adjusting to being alive (price noting that I can relate?). Generally I joke that he was in my stomach, comfortable and content material and blissfully unaware, and when he got here out in September 2020, he took a go searching on the mess of the world and stated, no f*ing thanks. Who might blame him?
However now. Now he has grown into the sweetest, smiliest child boy. And pricey god almighty he’s cute. I really feel like I’m melting after I take a look at him.
I do know it’s quite a bit when mother and father assign these huge traits to their child, however I’ll simply go forward and observe swimsuit: Levi has essentially the most constructive, lovely power about him. He seems to be at you and it’s like he’s wanting previous your eyes and into your soul, assessing it, understanding you, supplying you with the peace of being each seen and accepted. You didn’t even know a child might do this for you, however he does.
Generally we describe him as, “simply blissful to be right here.” Levi is our jolly little man. He loves making eye contact and giving this big one-dimple, cheeks-puffed-out smile that’s unattainable to not return. He’s playful, virtually like an over-excited pet who desires to play however doesn’t precisely know the way. He stands up in his crib ready for us within the morning and as quickly because the door opens he dives again down and crawls to the nook whereas laughing, like he’s beginning the day with some disguise and search.
Though he likes to smile, he’s a tricky snigger. Daniel and I are continually doing new bits, making an attempt to get him going, however principally he simply offers us this lovable, well mannered smile and coos at us, basically saying, oh you guys are treasured. However occasionally, you actually hit on one thing and this boisterous cackling comes roaring out. It’s so satisfying. So so satisfying.
There was a time frame when he couldn’t be held by anybody aside from Daniel and me. A child born in a pandemic…it is sensible. Now he’s way more OK with it.
James did the military crawl and Levi does the bear crawl. It doesn’t look simple, but it surely works for him. He motors via the home on all fours and his knees by no means contact the bottom. He loves wrestling with Daniel and James. However his favourite factor on this planet is when DeeDee visits and he chases her round the home on the ground, lastly having a playmate on his degree. He’s an adventurous climber. Final week he climbed up onto the sofa utilizing a pillow that was on the ground and he tumbled over the armrest onto the ground. Fortunately, he escaped with only a bruise, however we’re all the time on excessive alert.
Once we first launched solids round six months, he needed nothing to do with them. He acted repulsed by something we put in his mouth apart from a bottle. However inside a couple of weeks, he began to essentially take pleasure in meals, a lot in order that he now tries to refuse his bottle altogether. He nonetheless wants the system to get all his vitamins so this created an issue. We have now to combine his system into oatmeal or purees now to ensure he’s getting sufficient.
At this level, I can’t consider a meals we’ve given him that he doesn’t like. He adores avocado and eats half of 1 virtually day by day for lunch. He additionally actually likes broccoli, candy potatoes, scrambled eggs, shredded rooster, and something James leaves behind.
Merely put: James. He adores James. The look in Levi’s eyes when he sees his huge brother…it’s like a lightweight activates inside him. It was clear early on that he adored James and now that he’s crawling all over the place, he can type of “play” together with his brother—one thing James loves, too. James has warmed as much as Levi after being fairly impartial towards him for the primary six-ish months. However he has additionally turn into extra aggressive, particularly round toys. So he yells, “Levi, it’s not secure” and shoves him to the bottom. We’re engaged on making an attempt to sense when James isn’t within the temper for interplay however we additionally don’t need to be continually interfering of their relationship as they fight to determine easy methods to work together with each other.
The vacuum. And that’s a toughie as a result of we’ve by no means wanted to make use of a vacuum greater than we do now, with two wild animals roaming the home. Possibly we should always get a Roomba and put it in a pug costume.
I really like you, my treasured Levi! You make my complete life.